Sometimes you will both want different things and will both have to talk and discuss what might be the best outcome. One of you will have to compromise because one of you will have a stronger reason as to why things should move in a particular direction. If you can show compromise you are both guaranteed to always come to the right solution at the right time that will benefit both of you. Showing you know how to compromise will show him that you are prepared to listen and change.
A man wants a woman who is caring because if she is caring it shows that she is a nice person and he could have a happy life with her. He will love it when you ask how he is or how his day at work has gone. He will love it that you care that his friends and family are all ok.
When you make him his favourite meal he will love it that you care enough about him to cook for him. It's the simple things that show you are caring, like running him to work because his train has been delayed or looking after some of the household chores so that he can relax. He will never have to worry when things don't go his way because he knows you will be there for him caring about how he is and how you can help.
A man wants a woman who is funny because he likes to be entertained. You make a daft comment about something you've seen on television and he laughs his head off because it's funny. Everybody likes to laugh; it lets the pressure out that you might be feeling. A man will love it when a woman can see the funny side of things. It's very satisfying to be in a relationship where there is no stress because laughter is always there in the background.
Maybe he says something interesting and you respond by pulling funny faces at him. He will find this highly amusing and the fact that you can make him laugh just by pulling a daft face will give you both a happy and loving environment to live in. A man wants a woman who takes care of her appearance because it wouldn't be very nice for him to have to live with someone who is scruffy and smells.
So my advice to you is keep looking and smelling nice. I know a lady who keeps herself immaculate every day.
She gets up and has a shower, she gets dressed in nice clothes and she dabs a bit of perfume on. She always wears her best jewellery and she oozes confidence. It will come of no surprise to you to learn that her man totally admires and adores her. He does everything for her; he runs the errands, he cleans up, and he does the shopping. The reason he does all of this is because he appreciates her and wants her to know that her efforts are much loved.
If you would like to have this effect on your man I suggest you do what she does and look and smell nice every single day. A man wants a woman to be strong because her strength will drive his strength and together they can achieve a lot of things. A woman can be strong in many ways. She can be strong when it comes to lifting; by using leverage a woman can lift most things. A woman can be strong when it comes to dealing with problems; she will look at all aspects of the problem and eventually find a solution.
A woman can be strong when it comes to making decisions, sometimes when nobody else will make a difficult decision, she will be strong and make that difficult decision. These are just some of the examples of a woman being strong.
When a woman shows strength she is showing her man that she can cope. If she can cope with whatever situation she finds herself her in, it shows him that he can get on with his own life with peace of mind knowing that she will be ok. A man wants a woman with a maternal instinct because he will know that if they were to have children she would be a good mother.
A woman who has a maternal instinct is a blessing to a man. Not only does he know she will look after their children with love, he will also know that she will look after him as well. A lot of men like to be mothered. They have been used to being looked after by their own mothers for their whole life and they want this feeling to continue. It's quite nice as a woman to be thought of as maternal, it means that the people around you admire you for having such a lovely quality.
Men want praise because deep down they have the same insecurities as everybody else. When you praise your man you are giving him confidence. He will love you for giving him this confidence.
Maybe he's never had anybody to praise him before and so the feeling that your praise gives him will build up a rapport between you that you can both thrive on. My advice for you is to praise him as often as you can. Try building a bond between you that is based on appreciation of each other's skills, a bond that will see you through many happy years because you praised each other all along the way. Men want respect. They want to hold their head up high and walk tall along the road. They want you to recognise that they are there for you through thick and thin.
Showing your respect for him is showing him that you love and appreciate him for being there for you. It's easy to show respect, you just have to recognise the things that he does for you and tell him how much you admire his efforts.
Men want to feel a sexual connection because they love the thrill of what that connection might bring. You fall in love with each other because you both felt a powerful sexual chemistry pass between you. It's a sexual connection that is as powerful today as it was when you first met. It's a connection that keeps you both feeling loved and wanted. I agree on so many of these things. When the article started off with "Men Want Organisation" you definitely caught my attention.
As a man, I want a partnership. I don't want to feel like I have to take on the burden of all of the decision making and organization. I also don't want the opposite of someone who wants to be a dictator and say what I can do and can't do. I want organization, a clean house, home cooked food, harmony, understanding, sense of humor, conversation not being talked at , affection. Now this is a two way street and I'll be trying to give the same or more.
I don't want or need someone who is perfect, but someone everyday who is trying to be better than they were yesterday. This article hides behind all the words about independence a d strength when really it just reinforces so many gender stereotypes.
Women should cook, clean, work on the House, praise her husband and don't argue or disagree too much. This article makes me understand why I choose to be single. This article lists all the gender stereotypes. In other words, women need to be robots and perfectly programmed machines to make sure everything is already prepared and organised for the men or her man , In a partnership an understanding is needed, there is a need to be appreciative, a need to be sympathetic, a need to be there for each other, and a need to work together in a team.
Both people in a partnership are required to be cooperative and compromising Biologically, there are some differences between man and woman. No dictionary or theory says women must do certain things e.
Sadly, these are stereotypical concepts created by humans from centuries ago and some people still want to hold on to these wrong and unreasonable stereotypical concepts. Women have been fighting for their rights for decades and centuries. Yes, the rights women have fought for and still fighting for are referred to as 'women's rights' which are 'human rights'. This does mean women are selfish or being sexist!
Women have just been fighting for and asking for their women rights human rights, that's all! The point is that both male and female genders both men and women can do the cleaning, both can do the house chores, both can cook, both can do the laundry, both can try to be organised, both can be there for each other, both can work to maintain harmony in a relationship, both can praise each other, both can have desires, both can show care and concern, both can be loyal, both can respect each other and both want to be respected,…… the list can go on.
Therefore, one gender should not be given a list, feel pressured, excepted to be in a certain way and made to feel that certain things must be done for them to be desired, wanted, or an accepted woman or man according to the stereotypes that still exist. Both men and women can work together, share responsibilities and duties, take turns to do things. Alternatively, just do tasks together to make things easier and also spend more time together. It's not that complicated. In some places, women who wish to do something else besides being at home and being responsible for all the house tasks are told 'you're a woman it's best for you to be at home and do the cleaning, cooking, laundry In some places, women are asked 'how are you going to manage a job and manage the tasks at home, at the same time?
Why make a woman feel less, decrease her self-esteem, make her feel restricted, make her feel exhausted It's simply not right or fair. Men or women both are human. As humans, both genders should support each other, have each other's back, stand up for each other when needed, work together Provide comfort, care, respect, and be together in happy and tough times Hopefully one day we can be in a world without gender stereotypes, without gender discrimination, without the unnecessary judgemental gender expectations and restrictions so that the world can be a better place.
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You can read more about me here As a man i don't want all of these just few of them are more than enough. Thank goodness, I almost passed out looking at this long list. I like this Jeff. Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback. Leave a Reply Cancel reply Your email address will not be published. Then, too, you have to be there for him, partly to comfort and partly to offer practical help if you can. When a woman tries to keep close at all times, a man might feel suffocated and see the woman as clingy or needy.
A man would like you to have the equivalent where you grant yourself the freedom of spending time alone or with friends or family. It also helps him to feel less pressure to be your only source of love and happiness. It should come as no surprise, then, to learn that men prefer a woman who is capable of keeping the peace more than she breaks it. If conflict is rife amongst her and her friends, colleagues, or family, that tension and ill-feeling will spill over into the relationship. But knowing how to let go of grudges, see the best in people, and prioritize inner peace over the need to be right can all help a relationship run smoothly.
This can lead to her needs not being met and her eventual resentment of her partner. After all, men are not mind readers. And, sadly, men are not great at reading between the lines either. When channels of communication are open, both parties feel more able to express themselves, more heard, and more positive about the interactions they have. Speaking of needs and wants, a man is ideally looking for a woman who actually knows what hers are. All of a sudden, the man is responsible for deciding what you do at the weekends, what movie you see, what restaurant you go to.
Whilst neither person should make the decisions all of the time, the work of choosing between various options should be shared. You could take his hand whilst walking, stroke his neck whilst sitting beside him on the couch, or kiss him unexpectedly. Over time, a man will get better at it, but they need a little helping hand at first — literally on occasion. A woman who has the self-confidence to just be herself and accept that some people might not like her. We serve personalized stories based on the selected city.
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